From: Finding Meaning in Engagement: 'I May Be Old, But I'm Fun!' by Chenfeld, Mimi Brodsky
Source: Generations, 7/1/2008.
Via:
HighBeam™ Research
Copyright American Society on Aging Summer 2008
Excerpt:
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A few good examples.
When I received an invitation to write a piece for this issue of Generations, my first thought was that spirituality, aging, and meaning in later life was a wonderful theme Inspirational! Motivational! Rooted in solid research! What could be more important than encouraging older people to live more meaningful, spiritual, joyful lives? To live to their fullest?
I have chosen a few examples of the many older people I know who derive meaning from engagement in life. They are involved, courageous, creative, interesting, and interested individuals.
TOUCHING THE FABRIC OF LIVES
Nancy Frank sews fabrics and helps people stitch their lives together. Over thirty years ago, Nancy brought a bag lunch and went to a program that featured pillow making. That day she fell in love with sewing, patchwork, and quilting. Sometime later, she saw the film "Dead Man Walking," the true story of a nun who counseled death row inmates. Deeply touched by the story, Nancy decided she would like to help women coming out of prison. But how? She called a halfway house and volunteered to meet with women prisoners to teach them sewing and stitching and, through arming them with those skills, help mem find positive, healthy ways to reenter the community. Now, she continues this work in two halfway houses, mentoring, sharing, and inspiring. Over the years, she has touched the fabric of many lives.
ELDERS OF THE TRIBE
In midlife, Dick Haile and his wife, Bess, a Shinnecock Native American, moved back to her tribal reservation after thirty years in Schenectady, New York, where Dick had worked as an engineer and Beth as a teacher. Bess's father, Chief Thunderbird, had long been the highly respected leader of the tribe, and now Bess became an influential member of the tribal council. Both Hailes plunged themselves into service projects for people on the reservation and worked on the annual powwow. Bess cofounded a school for children of the tribe. Recently, with family and friends gathered to celebrate the Hailes's fiftieth wedding anniversary and Dick's eighty-second birthday, a fusion of voices honored their good works. When I asked Bess to share something of her philosophy for this article, she was too busy to say more than, "We enjoy being the elders. We speak freely and are happy to serve our extended family."
NOT 'RETIRED'
Hal Schneiderman didn't quite get the concept of retirement. After twenty-five years as a social worker in settlement houses and twentyfive years as a professor of social work at Ohio State University, Hal earned a law degree so that he could work with court referrals and juveniles who needed lawyers in abuse, neglect, and dependency cases. When he turned 75 years old, Hal did a free-fall skydiving jump. He has visited every continent in the world and, with his daughter, a devoted animal rights and environmental awareness advocate, he has explored rivers and forests around the globe. Try to catch Hal to ask him to express his beliefs about the richness of his varied interests and his commitments to service: He simply says, "My life is tied with family and community. I share my life and do what I can to make the world a better place.""